Showing posts with label toddler. Show all posts
Showing posts with label toddler. Show all posts

So many words

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Mats has always been a talker, but he really wasn't into words until maybe three weeks ago. He pulled out "boo" for balloon back at his first birthday (because he was obsessed with the balloons we had up around the house), and would do mommy and daddy, but other than that it was mostly just emphatic babbling. While we were in Steamboat Springs on vacation a few weeks ago, though, something just clicked with him, and he's been adding words with regularity. He discovered "hot" and "up" that week, and hot is still one of his favorite go to words.

Parenting magazine just rained on my parade - they have an article online that says that by 16 months, girls have an average of 50 words and boys an average of 30. If that's true, Mats is apparently way behind average on verbal skills, but I'm okay with that. Hmm, although WebMD says that at 18 months, kids may say 10 words. Clearly there's a spectrum. Either way, I'm still super proud of the words my sweet 17 month old does have:
  1. Dada (always with gusto)
  2. Mama
  3. Balloon
  4. Ball
  5. (sign for) All done
  6. (sign for) More
  7. Hot
  8. Up
  9. Shoe
  10. Cheese
  11. (sign for) Help (which is only distinguished from "More" by context)
  12. Please (also does the sign)
  13. No No (with a shaking head)
  14. Nose
The cutest thing Matson's learned to do recently, in addition to pointing to his nose and crinkling it up while saying, "Nose" (seriously, adorable) is kissing! I'll ask him for a kiss, and if he's in the mood, he'll run over, pucker up his lips, and kiss me straight on the lips. So endearing. If he's not in the mood he'll just ignore me.
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We got to enjoy a vacation in Florida with the little tyke last week! Scott's middle sister got married on the beach in Pensacola, so we flew down for the festivities and tacked on a few extra beach days. We had an amazing time playing in the waves, laying on the sand, making sand castles for Matzilla to smash with a fierce growl, and hanging out with family. Highlights of the week included several night swims, jumping into the ocean with our clothes on post-wedding (the bride and groom led the charge!), collecting seashells, taking a long moonlit walk on the beach with my sweet husband, catching mini sand crabs, watching Mats dance at his aunt and uncle's wedding and subsequently having everyone at the wedding dancing "The Matson".

And now, I can't believe that it's suddenly September, all of our summer vacations are over, school's back in session, and the days are getting shorter. Does this mean that summer is over?

Toddler in the Air

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If you've ever met Matson, you know that he is a busy little 14 month old. Busy busy busy. If he ever sits still, it's usually because he has a hammer or stick in his hand that he wants to whack with (ie, hammer for his ball run), or dirt he wants to play in. He much prefers grand scale exploration to sitting and attending to a small task. Thus, the idea of flying with him to Phoenix this last weekend to visit Scott's parents was intimidating. (The idea of flying with him by myself in a few weeks to help my parents pack up their house is even more intimidating!) But, we survived! And I'm so thankful for my sweet husband who did most of the baby wrangling while I fished snacks and toys out of the bag.

My tips for those of you flying with a walker who doesn't like to sit still:

  • Take a car seat! Our flight to Phoenix wasn't full, so they let us take it on ... amazing. That flight was over naptime, and he slept almost the whole way.
  • Lots of finger food snacks. Blueberries, peas, grapes, and animal crackers were all big hits.
  • Bring a fun new food. We picked up a bag of freeze dried mango at Target (no sugar added, but it's super sweet and has an easy puffy texture since it's freeze dried) that Matson loved.
  • For the week before the trip, anytime Mats would pick up a toy at home and bring it to me to play with him, I'd set it aside for the plane. Things your toddler likes to sit and poke are perfect - for us, the best were a mesh squishy ball (like http://amzn.to/KZtuo5), a touch and feel book (http://amzn.to/Ksfea9), and a clean bulb syringe because he likes to feel the air rush on his face when you squeeze it.
  • Go walking in the aisles when you can, even if your kid seems happy in your lap at that point! The seatbelts sign will come on soon enough - save the snacks and toys for then.
  • We let him splash in a little water cup, which was messy and it kind of looked like I'd wet my pants, but it made him happy for a good 5 minutes.
  • We tried a video, but he's never been into them at home, and within the first 30 seconds it became clear that he thought my phone was a better chewtoy than entertainment device.
  • Dress baby as simply as possible. The little shorts rompers were great for plane/airport diaper changing - no extra layers to contend with.
  • Resign yourself to the fact that your kid will probably have a public meltdown at some point. They turned off the air on our descent back to Denver, so between being past bedtime with no afternoon nap, a hot plane, and ear pressure, Mats had a frantic and very loud 15 minutes refusing all consolation. He was fine as soon as we got off of the plane, but I did have basically everyone on the plane staring at me. It happens, and we survived.
We'll see what I come up with after flying solo with the little man next month!
     

How We Play

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One of the things that most intimidated me prior to being with Mats full time was wondering what on earth we'd do together all day. How would I entertain him? One of my favorite things about Mats being 13 months old and walking all over the place (and really, this applied even when he was 9 months old and crawling all over the place), is that he is so good at entertaining himself. His capacity for playing by himself is really pretty remarkable.

His current favorite independent play activities:
  • Being outside!
    • Splashing in the watering can (a water table is on my garage sale list ... I really like the fact that with a watering can, he can get wet and enjoy the water, but I don't have to worry about him drowning or give him close supervision - there's absolutely no way he could get his face near the water)
    • Finding sticks
    • Sitting behind the air conditioner playing with mulch
    • Drumming on the canoe
    • Riding his toy truck in the yard - it doesn't go anywhere on our bumpy grass, but that doesn't seem to bother him!
    • Sifting through dirt
    • Wandering around the yard
    • "Shoveling" the front driveway (obviously only when I'm outside with him)
  • When I leave the back door open for him so he can go back and forth between playing inside and outside.
  • Looking out the front window - he spent 10 minutes yesterday on his tippy toes, parting the blinds with his fingers so that he could watch some landscape guys spreading fertilizer on our neighbor's lawn
  • Climbing on his toy box (also conveniently located under the front window)
  • Dragging my broom around the living room
  • Sending toys and shoes down stairs
  • Dancing to the radio
  • Hammering on his ball run
  • Putting stacking blocks together (this is new!)
  • Taking the mini broom and dustpan on walks around the house
  • Sitting and bouncing on the bottom stair
  • Riding wheely-cow around the living room
  • Wadding up a knotted bundle of yarn
  • Draping belts and strings around his shoulders like a scarf
  • Making music with his xylophone
  • Wrapping himself up in the curtains
  • Exploring the pantry
  • Paint stirrer sticks ... not really sure what's so amazing about these, but he loves taking them for walks
He also loves bringing me books to read to him, playing peekaboo, having dance parties with mom, inspecting my cooking, tussling with dad (which is what Scott calls their nightly wrestling/tickling matches on the bed during which Mats is usually almost hysterical with glee), tackling anyone who happens to be sitting/crouching/laying on the floor, singing songs together, and mommy's hair.

One year olds seem to have an endless capacity for being fascinated by the most minute things!

SFG

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I once have the vegetable garden bug. I had a little veggie garden I think two years ago, but got maybe 6 cherry tomatoes and a single miniature, deformed bell pepper out of the experiment. Colorado dirt just doesn't have anything on rich Midwestern soil for growing things. Perhaps why people ranch instead of farm out here. Hmm.
Anyway, I knew I'd have to do things differently this year. For starters, water the darn thing. In my defense, I got pregnant mid-summer two years ago and was reeeeeally tired/sick feeling for the last part of July, all of August, and most of September. Like I would get home from work at 5:45, take a nap til 6:30 or 7, eat a little something that didn't contain meat, then back to bed at 9:30. This year, I don't anticipate that being a problem.

Back to my point, though, I knew I'd need to revamp my gardening plan this time around, actually work the soil with some nutrient rich stuff, etc. And pick a spot that gets good sunlight, which my initial area didn't. Looking around my yard, the spot that was standing out was our side yard ... 300 square feet of river rock, weeds that get waist high in the summer, and 40 year old weed barrier below a few inches of rock and dirt. Super. That side yard has irked us since we moved in, but we always had more pressing issues to deal with. Now that we have a walker, though, who passionately loves rocks (to eat) and was fascinated by the thorny thistles, we decided to go ahead and have it cleared - and that it would give me a garden spot was just icing on the cake!

I got that done for a fair price via Craigslist (and so glad I didn't try it on my own - it took two big guys two full days to get it cleared!), and then realized that the dirt under all of that was still pretty rocky. Some Googling, some plotting and planning ... and I discovered Square Foot Gardening. Basically, the premise is that you build a raised bed - no more than 4' wide, so that you can reach the inside of the bed for harvesting while standing outside (you don't want to step on the soil to compact it), fill it with a super rich mixture of compost, vermiculite, and peat moss, and create a grid on top so that you have a defined zone for each vegetable. You can allegedly grow a lot more plants closer quarters that they would be able to in the ground. As in, what was going to take probably 75 square feet on the ground because of rows and all that will be contained in 16 square feet. Not entirely sure why - maybe it's the rich soil? Creative pruning? But it seems to work, according to the book and a lot of blogs and forums.

So, I borrowed Scott's truck for a few days to get fill dirt (for the low spots), weed barrier, and mulch, put all of that in myself (so glad we bought a wheelbarrow last year!). Looked up a lot of plans and pictures of raised beds, went to Home Depot and bought some wood, and broke out the saw and drill and got it built! Installation was a little less than fun since I had to dig 6" holes to plant my bed supports into, but it went a lot more smoothly once I remembered that water + dirt = mud = easy digging. Thanks, Kindergarten!

This last weekend I got my compost mixture in place, and yesterday I created my square foot grid with nails and string. Today, Mats and I will hit up a garden center for some tomato and pepper plants (since I waited too long to get those started inside), and start planting! I'm so looking forward to a summer of garden fresh vegetables.

One down side: a 12" raised box is pretty much perfect height for my baby, who loves dirt. So far, he loves running his fingers through the soil (and trying to dump it outside the box, of course), and twice tried to climb into the box. Somehow, I think Mats is going to be my biggest garden pest this year.

thinking about weaning

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mats turns one (1!) in less than three weeks ... i truly cannot believe how this year has flown by! there are so many changes that come with having a one-year old toddler rather than an "infant".
  • we bought a bike seat for the little man for his birthday - the yepp mini front bike seat at rei, paid for in part with the rei giftcard that i won from the frugal girl's giveaway last year!
  • we're looking at convertible car seats since mats is reaching the height limit on his infant seat (bummer, since that one will stay in the car, meaning that when he falls asleep in it, he has to wake up when we get home.)
  • since he can walk, he gets to actually play at playgrounds
  • we have to find real soled shoes to put him to protect his feet walking around in public since the little leather booties he's currently in won't do much for him if he steps on something sharp
  • i get to start thinking about weaning
(if you're a boy and don't want to think about nursing, go ahead and stop reading now.)

i was admittedly pretty excited about the weaning idea a few months ago, particularly just before christmas when he was teething awfully and biting up a storm. then, i was practically counting down the days. but now? i'm a bit more reticent. his nursing time is such a sweet time for us - he knows just what to do, he lets me snuggle him, i get to feel all warm and fuzzy and motherly and have set aside time to pray for him and his future, and it's a nice little break from the day. in the evenings when we're doing his bedtime routine, i'll sit in the glider in his room and read a bible story while he plays on the floor with scott, and when he's ready to have his milk and go to bed, he'll walk over to me at the chair, lift his arms to be picked up, then immediately lay down in my arms while smacking his lips and opening his mouth like a little baby bird! pretty precious.

on the one hand, i'm eager to be past this stage so that we have more freedom during the day to not have to hide out somewhere to nurse, but on the other hand, i feel like it's one of the few baby-ish things my kid does anymore. i'm not in a rush to move us past this. (although i say this and in the same thought also really hope that we're done by this summer sometime so that we can go hiking and camping and biking without a nursing cover. and so that scott and i can get a night away.)

allegedly, pediatricians ask at the twelve month appointment about your plan for weaning and i'm really not sure what i'm going to say. do i have a plan? i plan to start offering him milk in a sippy cup once he hits a year and it's "allowed" ... but i don't really plan to push the end of this. maybe my plan is to let it end naturally, as he transitions himself to milk more and me less? i guess i assume that'll happen in a timely fashion on its own. if it doesn't, then i'll start my planning.